August 26th Meditation of the Day

Honesty “With the help of ACA, we are offering our parents fairness as we look at the family system with rigorous honesty. We are looking for the truth so that we can live our own lives with choice and self-confidence. We want to break the cycle of family...

August 25th Meditation of the Day

Acting Out “By working the ACA program, we learn to recognize when we are thinking like a victim or persecutor and to talk about it.” BRB p. 9 Since the Laundry List was such an important part of our original identification when we found ACA, we used that...

August 24th Meditation of the Day

Survivor “It is my bias that no one deserves to live a life of fear and shame.” BRB p. xviii Many ACAs go from blaming, shaming, complaining, and condemning ourselves and others to finally learning to name what is really going on. By doing so, we begin to...

August 23rd Meditation of the Day

Grief as Freedom “Experienced ACA members speak of grief with a sense of serenity rather than with sorrow or resentment.” BRB p. 200 When listening to ACAs share at meetings, newcomers may at first only hear the recounting of the childhood events and their...

August 22nd Meditation of the Day

PTSD “PTSD is a condition of the body and mind in which a person stores the memory of a violent attack or life-threatening event.” BRB p. 344 When we got to ACA, we knew our minds and emotions were affected, but our bodies? We saw that the literature...